Love YOU

Today I just read something that made me angry. One of my Success Weight's members was violated by a man because of her weight. When will it stop? It does not make sense for a man to punch a female in the face all because he does not like the way she look. If you hate yourself that much, then walk away and find someone who you are attracted to. People who are overweight have enough issues to live with, and your ugly words and actions should not impact their day.

This young lady was disrespected, and it was because she was overweight. My message to her and anyone else, please understand everyone is not vicious and looking to hurt you. We have to accept the fact that most people do not like themselves; therefore, they find every reason to hurt you more. See we can eat right and work out to fix the external aspect of ourselves, but these people will always be negative and ugly - it will never change.


Sometimes it is difficult to keep a positive mindset during this process, but you have to know who you are, and why you are the way you are. Loving yourself enough so when people sting you with their negative words, it won't hurt you. We have to accept cruel people walk this earth, but if you keep your faith, and continue to love yourself, you will not have as many bad day.

TW aka Plus Size Health Nut